TwitterFeb 01 2010
I have had a great day today. Had my sons 25th birthday party and all my children were gathered around the table in celebration. It was a peaceful gathering of laughter and sharing… annnnnd this is where I say that the relationships I’ve been healing with my children really shinned through. The one that I’ve [...]
Jan 28 2010
Yesterday started off with a productive meeting. Went from there with John Solomon to search out things we discussed from the meeting. When I came home and pulled into my parking space I spied a package setting in the threshold of my door. A surge of excitement filled me when I
Jan 21 2010
CONTINUED from yesterday and the days before that: Let me wrap this all up by saying you should know… that what I’ve shared in this series of posts, regarding taking my parental RESPON-sibility, drew out for months. When I was having problems with my first born son it went on for years because I had [...]
Jan 20 2010
CONTINUED FROM YESTERDAY, which is a continuation from the day before and the day before that… I think it’s important to say right here I felt that THERE WERE POINTS here and there I COULD HAVE TAKEN ISSUE WITH with each of my children that has mini !BLAM!med me. AND…. MAYBE I would have been right [...]
Jan 19 2010
CONTINUED From yesterday: Yesterday I left off saying that today I would share how I responded when my adult child/ren wanted me to respond to their mini !BLAM!s. Here’s how I went about it:
Jan 17 2010
As I said in the last post, “All the king’s horses and all the kings men” couldn’t fix the problem that had developed between me and my child/ren. Only I could belly up and take RESPOND-siblity for what I had created. Own the whole mess.
Jan 08 2010
Since I’ve !BLAM!med my parents I’ve been open to a lot of new things I didn’t see before. My coach has been able to take me to new levels. I’ve come to see new things. And I’m thankful.
Jan 07 2010
As I gave thought to my last post I think it’s also very important that I also say: I would like to make it clear to everyone who reads my blog that I’m not “blaming” my parent for my issues. But I do !BLAM! them for their personal-living-hell they dumped on me when I was [...]
Jan 06 2010
After I posted my last post I had to come back to my faithful key board because I can almost hear you wondering… When I went home to seek resolution with my parents a few years ago, my step-father was remorseful and changed… So WHY did I !BLAM! him as well?
Jan 06 2010
I want to pause from my ongoing story to point out a couple things… I have experienced two DIFFERENT reactions from my parents since the !BLAM!. One positive and one negative. I share to encourage others… I share to say I understand…
