Mar
28
2010
Yesterday was Grace’s birthday party, today is her actual birthday. The big 1-2. Becoming 12 is such a big deal in a girls life. Only one one year till 13–the teens–and another that distances them from being considered “a little kid”. Most girls are anxious to get past “the little
Mar
26
2010
The days have clicked by since I posted last. As I mentioned before, I’ve been working a ton, thank goodness. It helps take the edge off. I’ve been working twice a day for two different families, back to back, most of this week. Then there’s picking Zac up from school at 11:30 and working on my business, and [...]
Jan
08
2010
Since I’ve !BLAM!med my parents I’ve been open to a lot of new things I didn’t see before. My coach has been able to take me to new levels. I’ve come to see new things. And I’m thankful.
Jan
06
2010
After I posted my last post I had to come back to my faithful key board because I can almost hear you wondering… When I went home to seek resolution with my parents a few years ago, my step-father was remorseful and changed… So WHY did I !BLAM! him as well?
Jan
02
2010
CONTINUED: Honestly I don’t think my step-father processed that by him asking me to call my mother…he was asking me to “fix something that I had done wrong”. But that’s what was happening. And that’s exactly the power play I think she had been trying to create. I’m positive that after I called/!BLAM!med there was [...]
Dec
29
2009
Einstein: “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” For years I’ve pretty much been doing the same thing over and over again with my parents and expecting different results. !BLAM!ming them was doing something different. By not ever dealing honestly, openly, and calmly with the past and being [...]
Dec
23
2009
What began as a drop, picking up my phone and !BLAM!ming my parents, has spread in ever expanding ripples in wonderful ways. Ways I never would have predicted. The freedom and healing I’m experiencing has taken me by surprise.
Dec
22
2009
It’s been a week and two days since I called my parents and !BLAM!ed them. (click here for video) I took control of my life. Stood up, as an adult and said, “Wait just a minute here…” and the results are continuing to be astounding. Since I hung up it’s been a new experience. My [...]
Dec
21
2009
Quick note, my parents weren’t aware that I was going to be calling and !BLAM!ming. That was a “cold call”. They also didn’t know that we were filming. (re-posted video at bottom) Thoughts since the !BLAM!… !BLAM!ming my parents was one of the best things I’ve ever done. I feel so different inside. I’m experiencing [...]